After a couple more cold days of passage we finally arrived at the island of Tongatapu in the Kingdom of Tonga on 1st of July. Actually, we arrived on 30th June, but given that we lost a day on the passage due to Tonga’s recent hop over the international date line, it became the 1st of July.
After mooring up at the Nuku’alofa ferry terminal as instructed by Port Security, we spent the first day waiting for hours for Customs, Quarantine and Biosecurity officials to come on board. In the end a friendly taxi driver eager to move things along so he could give us a ride into town called up the Customs officials, telling them that we were in a hurry because Ed had to catch a flight. Thus prompted, they appeared within half an hour, one official after the other, each presenting numerous forms for us to fill in and sneakily stealing our pens.

“You are lucky to be here now”, said the Quarantine official, deftly placing one of our pens behind his ear. “Everybody is getting ready for the King’s coronation. You will see lights all along the shore from here to downtown”. He patted his round belly, shook our hands, and stepped back onto the dock.
“It is a good time to come”, said the Customs man, pushing his polaroid sunglasses up on his forehead and offering a brief smile as he stuck one of our pens in his shirt pocket. “We are doing much celebration for the coronation of the King. You will see dancing and parades in town every day”. He stuck his feet back into his brand new boots, pulled the boat closer to the dock and jumped off.
“You will stay here for a night”, said the Biosecurity lady, placing one of our pens in her handbag and snapping it shut. “You will go into town and see the school children dancing”. She smiled broadly and waved her hand as she stepped off the boat.
We rewarded the taxi driver who facilitated our entry with the ride into the Office of Immigration in town. At the office we queued for an hour before finally getting seen and presented with a stack of forms to fill in. We asked if we could borrow a pen, but they didn’t have any, so Ed ran to the supermarket to buy some more which we clutched to our chests whilst on their premises.

The town was decorated to the nines, the white and red Tongan flag flying from every corner, rich silky red and white ribbons smothering fences and bushes, photos of the portly king and his family, benignly smiling, staring down at us from tall building facades. Everywhere school children were walking, dressed in their starched uniforms and excitedly waving flags.

The following day we moved to an anchorage some distance from town to await the arrival of our friends Kate and Andy and their children Grace and Dougal, who were coming to stay with us for a week. Whilst waiting we happened upon Rob and Rachel Hamill and their three children, friends of friends freshly arrived from New Zealand, who were anchored right next to us. Their youngest son, Ivan, is eight, and the boys were soon busy playing.

The next day it was raining solidly, and we huddled up inside for most of the day, Ivan and his older brother Declan coming over for a play until the ferry brought the McDermer family over late in the afternoon. After a brief night of catching up, we set off early the following morning towards Vava’u, the northernmost island group in Tonga, where we hoped to find some sun. Unfortunately, the weather gods were unkind and we ended up with a truly horrible sail, the boat sailing into a head wind, bouncing and slamming into rough seas. To ease the journey, we decided to stop in the Ha’apai group on the way, cutting the journey from 150 to 70 nautical miles, but even this distance ended up taking us a full 24 hours.

“I can make breakfast”, said Kate as we took off from the anchorage early in the morning. “How about I make some French toast for everyone?”
“It’s going to be rough”, I said. “Let’s just make some toast, we’ll have a head wind and we might all get a little seasick”.
“I never get seasick”, she said, entering the galley. She started cutting bread and put the kettle on, humming a tune.
We rounded the corner and entered the open sea. Bob was rolling and jumping, heading into a confused sea. Ten minutes later Kate appeared in the cockpit, looking a bit pale. She sat down, keeping her eyes firmly on the horizon.
“I don’t think I can go back inside”, she said.
Andy tried ducking in to fetch some sunglasses, and reappeared quickly, deciding that outdoors was much easier to handle.
Grace had an even worse time of it. Within half an hour she was listlessly hanging over the side railing throwing up her breakfast, Andy holding her back from the heaving seas, pulling her hair away from her sweaty forehead. Never one to complain, moments later she lay down quietly in the cockpit, deadly white face, eyes closed, vomit all over her jacket.

We distributed seasickness tablets, and Grace immediately vomited again, her yoghurt spill mixing in with Dougal’s cracker-strewn vomit, the blend slowly dripping down through the holes in the floor into the sea. Uncertain about whether she actually digested the pill or not we dared not give her another, and so there was no respite for poor Grace for the next 23 hours as the boat rolled and jerked its way north.
“Daddy, this isn’t what you showed me in the pictures”, she whispered, leaning back to lie on Andy’s lap with her eyes closed. Dougal on the other side quietly whimpered that he would like to go home to Raglan now.

The only upside on the trip was some fantastic fishing, landing us both a bonito and a yellowfin tuna, a bonus for Andy who is a keen fisherman. Around lunchtime the following day we finally arrived at the anchorage, a small deserted island at the northern end of the Ha’apai group. Grace perked up once the boat was still, and we all enjoyed snorkelling, kayaking and deserted islanding for a day before attempting once more to head to Vava’u.


A great improvement on the first trip, the second voyage was a calm beam reach in flat seas, but poor Grace was still violently ill, lying shaking in the cockpit the entire day, wrapped in a large blanket, unable to move apart from periodically getting up to vomit. Fortunately everybody else were feeling good, excited about yet more successful fishing (a skipjack tuna) and the sighting of several humpback whales, promising for our whale watching plans for Vava’u.

And finally, just as the sun was setting, four days after their arrival in Tonga we arrived in Neiafu, the check in port in Vava’u. Grace breathed a sigh of relief on spotting the picturesque little limestone islands dotted through flat calm waters in Vava’u, and flashed her first smile since arriving on the boat. We had three days to explore Vava’u before they had to fly back to Tongatapu where Kate’s extended family awaited them.
So the following morning we checked in, and then upped and left, in search of some snorkelling, beaches and whales.

The snorkelling was exciting, a wide-eyed Dougal holding onto Andy’s hand as they explored undersea caves filled with balls of baitfish, the grown-ups exploring the famous Mariner’s Cave that you can only access by diving through a tunnel in the rock face. The kids played on the beach for most of a day, finding coconuts and lizards, and the last day of their visit we went whale watching with a local tour operator.


Tonga is famous for its humpback whales, which arrive in droves from Antarctica to mate and breed in the warm tropical seas around the island group in the months of July to September. Whale watching is a big part of the tourism in the Ha’apai and Vava’u island groups, where operators offer ‘swim with the whales’ experiences, and we were hoping to get a chance to see the gentle giants underwater whilst in the area.

We’d seen whales a couple of times since arriving in Tonga but not close up – regulations stipulate that private boats are not allowed within 300 m of whales, with fines rising up to $10,000 if local authorities find you closer. Ostensibly the rules are there to protect the whales, but I’m sure there’s an element of protecting the local businesses too, which is fair enough. There are a lot of yachts in Vava’u, and I’m sure that the numerous daily tour boats full of tourists eager to swim with whales offer quite enough disturbance without everybody else jumping in too. Any regulations around the operations are welcome in my opinion.

So we chartered a whale tour with Dolphin Dive, with the lovely guide Aurelia and skipper Villi. After a bit of searching, we soon found whales, and we jumped in several times with a couple of young males. After they disappeared, we saw a large group of whales some distance off, and went to investigate. As we got closer we were treated to the most amazing surface display, with huge males jumping gaily, fin slapping and fully breaching, crashing down with enormous splashes that sent white water high in the air. They didn’t seem to mind the presence of the boat, seemed to barely notice us, engrossed as they were in their jumping frolic. Aurelia told us they were in the middle of a ‘heat run’, where lots of males follow a female, competing for her favour. Feverishly, we rushed to get our wetsuits on so that we could enter the water to swim with them.
“Get in, now, hurry up” shouted Aurelia. She quickly shoved her snorkel into her mouth and slid from the back step of the boat into the water. “Come in”. Immediately she started to swim towards the whales.
The group of humpbacks were just off the boat when she got in, but they moved quickly and unpredictably. We scrambled in, swimming as fast as we could. We scanned the water, but saw just endless blue which we powered through quickly, out of breath, trying to keep up with Aurelia. She stopped, trying to kick herself up on the surface to see where they were. Head in the water we heard only our own fast breathing and the beating of our hearts, but as soon as we lifted our heads from the water we heard the loud splashing of breaching and the hiss of heavy breaths. We kept swimming furiously until we suddenly saw shapes appearing in the deep blue – we were surrounded by giant creatures. Huge and heavy, encrusted with barnacles, they eyed us curiously with beady eyes, gently gliding through the water, turning with a slow flick of a giant tail. From the depths emerged another group and we found ourselves hovering just ten metres above five or six whales, rolling and frolicking around. A huge male, a good 14 m long, swam up to another, almost touching his deeply grooved, white underside to the others dark grey back, then turned towards the depths and disappeared. Another one decided to surface for a breath, almost hitting Kate who was floating, too stunned to move, right where it came up to lift its large, knobbly head all out of the water, perhaps to check her out.


Their moves looked slow and deliberate for their size, but for us tiny creatures next to them they seemed to move very fast. After a while they decided to move, and with one small flick of the tail each one of the huge, 35 ton animals sped off, disappearing. All at once it was over, they were gone, continuing their furious pursuit of the female.
“Woohooo”, shouted Aurelia from the surface, fists pumping. We all cheered and she raised her hand to wave to Villi, who was leaning over the steering wheel grinning broadly as the boat made its way towards us.
Later, back on the boat, Aurelia told us we’d been very lucky.
“Amazing. The first heat run of the season, the first large groups of whales in the season, the first great breaching of the season”. Just as excited as us, she explained that they don’t normally meet large groups of whales until much later on in the year, and that they only very rarely get to be in the water with them, the whales normally choosing to move as the boat comes up.
What a week we’ve had with the McDermers. Rain and sunshine, sailing and anchorages, rough seas and flat waters. Freshly caught fish for dinner every night, deserted island with beaches for the kids to play on. Dark caves for snorkelling in, and huge whales to swim with. Thank you so much for coming, guys, it was wonderful to share all this with you!







































































































